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How to Deal with Annoying People? 

Almost everyone of us can automatically determine when a person is annoying. Well, I believe that each and everyone of us has an annoying being in his/her life, be it at work, in school and in the social circle. And since they are there, how do we handle them? I have five personal points in mind on how to handle them

1. Who Said?

 There are those type of annoying person who tries to dictate on what you want to do and can't do, but most of the time they tend to tell you that you cannot do so, but who are they to tell you what to do? who are they to know your limits? who are they judge you? and most especially, who are they to annoy you? Our mentality can help us overcome the words that those type of people utter. Like what they said, it is in the power of our minds. So the best option for this matter is to say "who said what?".

2. Life's What you make It

We are the ones who control our present and our future. If we decide to deal with our connection by living by the rules of those who annoy us then its our loss. If we decide to forgot them, be happy and move on then we are the one who will win. Our happiness therefore does not depend on how annoying they can get but on how we deal and take care of those situations. The answers are therefore in our hands.

3. Nobody's Perfect

In reality, nobody's perfect and we should always take that into consideration. At some point in time we would like to annoy someone. But there are just those people who cannot control themselves and annoy other people beyond their limits, they are usually the attention seekers and usually they are the ones who are way below our wavelengths. Therefore, we just need to accept that they exist in this world.

4. Let it Go

Sometimes, we just need to let it go and leave them be. Because the more that we give attention to them the more they'll give us headaches because like what I said in number 4. they are attention seekers. Sooner or later they'll tire from bothering you and eventually give up.

5. Repay them with Kindness

Of course, there are people who are hard-headed and would reach the sun and the moon just to bother you. These type of people are those with evil motives already and would feed on your anger. Because like what they said in tagalog "ang mga taog pikon ay talo/ people who are sensitive are sore losers". Now these type of people needs reverse psychology. What you do is that instead of being annoyed, just smile and treat them nicely. They will actually get shocked that you are not affected with their annoying acts and would ask themselves "what on earth happened?" and believe it or not they will already have a hard time bothering you since you will already be immunized.

These advises are not perfect but I tried to live with these thoughts and found myself happy again. But of course they are still trying crawl towards me... Do you have anything, you wanna add? feel free to comment below.

P.S. These are all personal thoughts/opinions ^_^ Smile People Smile.