A blog from the past
Earlier this day, I decided to make a new blog where I can share my thoughts and my life experiences. Much to my surprise, I discovered that I created a blog when I was still in high school and saw my post from back then. I haven't remembered about this though but I'm pretty sure that I still agree to the post I created back then...
*p.s. I have already deleted my old blog site.
*p.s. I have already deleted my old blog site.
Real Friends makes life a paradise... (edited)
Friends...
the first thing that comes to your mind is an acquaintance or a
comrade.. He/she will be there to fight with you over things.. go with
you in the mall, in the park and do the things you want to do together,
but let us face it, though we had our acquaintances with them, it does
not mean that they are true to us. Our every day acquaintances with them
does not make an assurance that they would not back bite us or stab us
at the back. Sometimes the least person you thought you could make
friends to might be the one who could really appreciate and be real to
you.
We, teenagers likes to categorize our friends as: friends only, friends in acquaintance, more than friends, friends with benefits, trusted friend, close friend and best friends.
Trusted friends are those people/friends that you entrust your secrets to, even if you are not that close. Though you might say it is pathetically weird, but we just don't realize that sometimes those friends who we seldom get close to or talk to are some of the people you want to share your secrets because of the fact that you trust them, and because not all of your close friends are the kind of people who you can trust your secrets with.
Close friends, are those who usually get acquainted to or you have the same taste with almost everything. Whenever someone asks you why are you close, you answer"Because of this and that".
Best friends, combination of close and trusted friends, though sometimes you might have the best friend that is way too opposite than you do but fills your empty thoughts deep inside. Your best friend is comparable to a sibling. Your doubts in your head and everything about you, you really entrust to tell your best friend about that. You are not plastic to your best friend nor he/she is doubtful to you, in short, you two are open to each other. Unlike close friends the question of why are you best friends or why are you close cannot be answered with such visible answers, in fact you can only say "I really don't how it happened but it just did and there are those descriptions of our friendship wherein it is hard to put in words. if you want to know just be friends with my friend".
Remember, it does not mean that if you are being best of friends with someone then you have to be with him/her always. Sometimes you need to get distance from each and meet new friends but still the essence of you two being best friends of each others is still there.....
"To find a real friend would make your life a paradise..."
We, teenagers likes to categorize our friends as: friends only, friends in acquaintance, more than friends, friends with benefits, trusted friend, close friend and best friends.
Trusted friends are those people/friends that you entrust your secrets to, even if you are not that close. Though you might say it is pathetically weird, but we just don't realize that sometimes those friends who we seldom get close to or talk to are some of the people you want to share your secrets because of the fact that you trust them, and because not all of your close friends are the kind of people who you can trust your secrets with.
Close friends, are those who usually get acquainted to or you have the same taste with almost everything. Whenever someone asks you why are you close, you answer"Because of this and that".
Best friends, combination of close and trusted friends, though sometimes you might have the best friend that is way too opposite than you do but fills your empty thoughts deep inside. Your best friend is comparable to a sibling. Your doubts in your head and everything about you, you really entrust to tell your best friend about that. You are not plastic to your best friend nor he/she is doubtful to you, in short, you two are open to each other. Unlike close friends the question of why are you best friends or why are you close cannot be answered with such visible answers, in fact you can only say "I really don't how it happened but it just did and there are those descriptions of our friendship wherein it is hard to put in words. if you want to know just be friends with my friend".
Remember, it does not mean that if you are being best of friends with someone then you have to be with him/her always. Sometimes you need to get distance from each and meet new friends but still the essence of you two being best friends of each others is still there.....
"To find a real friend would make your life a paradise..."
Posted 19th May 2007 by Alyana Vee
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